"Personally I believe a person need to make themselves whole first in terms of social life, finance, career and maturity, then they're in the right state of mind to decide if they're ready for a relationship.
Most people jump in a relationship hoping to find that one person to make them whole, hence when the fog is lifted the disappointment starts to sink in. Most people can't cherish their partners because they didn't fix the issues with themselves to begin with.
If you constantly can't live with your own skin, what makes you think you can manage another person in your life? Constantly needing to receive validation from others signals that you're insecure about yourself to begin with" - anonymous,2013.
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